There is no perfect Christmas. There is only the Christmas that fits your family. That’s the stuff of a picture book right there. But we’ve taken it to heart.
Our holiday isn’t totally traditional, but it fits us. We value simplicity, generosity, and togetherness. Those values are all at play in our DIY Christmas tree, a tradition that started on a whim in 2010 and has become a family favorite. We always give a nod to the traditional, but there are a few rules. We can only use what we have or can borrow, and we have to work together to create the tree.
Here is this year’s creation:
The ornaments have been gifted to us. The snowman, with the year 2007, was a baby gift to commemorate our December baby. The only purchased items in the above scene are the little stockings. It’s minimalist, and that’s just right for us. (Compare the past few years of DIY Trees on my photo blog.)
A colleague once commented to me that my daughter will not appreciate our unusual holiday tradition when she’s old enough to realize that her friends do it differently. He might be right, and our traditions might shift in the years to come.
We’ve already experienced a slight change in our Christmas celebration as of this year. It seems we are a Santa family this year. In the past, I have fallen Very Seriously into the anti-Santa camp. I had no idea when we decided to be Santa-free that this would be such a controversy, but it seems that every year the issue arises again in the media/blogosphere. I try to stay out of the argument in general, but I have been known to rant about the whole business in the privacy of my own home.
All that said, my daughter, who is now just about five years old, has requested that we pretend the Santa story is real this year. The moment we agreed, the onslaught began:
- “How is Santa going to get in our house since we don’t have a chimney?”
- “What if Santa forgets our house?”
- “What if Santa can’t find our Christmas tree and doesn’t know where to put the presents?
The list goes on. Even though she knows the truth, she’s still thinking through all the counter-factual scenarios that the Santa story involves. She’s learning to think in a causal, rational way, and we’re stretching our imaginations together. I have to admit, it’s pretty fun.
We have more Christmas fun planned–along with birthday and anniversary plans–so watch this space (or the photo blog) for more about our minimalist holiday.
If you missed it, here are some Christmas picture books we like.
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