I have been eagerly following the discussion of Faith and Spirituality in YA Lit going on at Teen Librarian Toolbox. I haven’t been talking about religion very much anymore on this blog. It is one of those awkward topics after all, like politics, that people tend to avoid. But I am still reading about it a lot, and I am very glad that others are talking about it. After all, I spent most of my life (including all of my teen years) as a person of faith in a non-mainstream religion, and I seem to always be drawn to stories that reflect the feelings that I remember from my religious experience, including the feeling of not wanting to be part of the religious identity I had always known.
- Hush by Eishes Chayil – This story addresses issues of sex abuse in a minority religious community in which reporting to the outside authorities is discouraged. It affected me deeply since it was an issue for my former religion as well.
- Like No Other by Una LaMarche – While there has been some discussion of the problematic portrayal of Hasidic Judaism in this book, I thought that Devorah’s emotional experience struggling with her faith and strict religious community was beautifully written. I think that is an important story to tell, and I saw this story as a way of sharing parts of my own.
- Starbird Murphy and the World Outside by Karen Finneyfrock – Starbird’s situation in this book is even more different from mine than the previous two on this list–she lives in a cult–but, again, it is the emotional experience that resonated with me. When she leaves her home and interacts with the Outside for the first time, she learns that Outsiders are not all bad and that her ideas about the world might not be completely accurate. This is, perhaps, one of my favorite de-conversion stories that I’ve read for its grace in capturing a nuanced experience.
- Eden West by Pete Hautman – While I’m on the subject of cults*, I’ll throw this book into the discussion even though it won’t be published until April. There are already too many cults in teen fiction, but I’ll allow this one. Yes, the cult has some weird beliefs, but Hautman lets his character figure it out slowly and reluctantly. No matter how weird one’s beliefs are, the process of leaving them is slow and reluctant. Too many teen novels don’t get that. This one does. Watch for it.
A few other titles that make the list: A Brief Chapter in My Impossible Life by Dana Reinhardt (atheism/agnosticism & Orthodox Judaism), Devoted by Jennifer Mathieu (Quiverful Christianity; Publishes in June 2015), A World Away by Nancy Grossman (Amish). On the nonfiction shelves: Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson or Rapture Practice by Aaron Hartzler. I have a running list going on my book list wiki.
None of these books is an exact match to my experience of religion or of separating from it, but each of them offers some glimpse into the world of making your own way in the world that is different from the way you were raised (or considering the possibility of doing that). That is not an easy thing to do, and it is not easy to capture. I am looking forward to the continued discussion on TLT, and I applaud them for taking up a topic that people often avoid discussing in mixed company.
Curious about my current religious identity? I shared that story here.
* When you are part of a minority group that isn’t often reflected in fiction, you tend to find similarities where you can. There is an emotional resonance for me with these stories about cults because they are also a minority belief group. My discussion of these books should not constitute a commentary on religion in general or in specific.